Well you probably heard of the problems that some people get into when they drink a little too much and start to drive their cars. This is known as drinking and driving irresponsibly and can be hazardous to your health but more hazardous to your pocketbook. Overdosing on drugs, spending too much money shopping, gambling excessively and last but not least, spending too much time at your place of worship can be hazardous to others. Over time, our loved ones seem to suffer the most from our excesses.
I suggest most people use religion responsibly and try not to overindulge in the excesses of your spiritual practice. Like an alcoholic drinking until they feel good, only to wake up feeling bad the next morning. And then starting the process all over the next day.
Now for the big question, “Are You a Religiousoholic?” Do you spend too much time at church? Do you surround yourself exclusively with people that share your same religious beliefs?
If you answered yes to any of the above questions, there’s a good chance you’re a religiousoholic. Like alcoholics and drug addicts, there is help for you, once you’ve identified your problem, we can help. We call it our 5 step program. Alcoholics Anonymous has a 12 step program for recovery but we have eliminated a couple and rearranged others in hopes for a faster recovery.
Religionolism is no laughing matter and should be handled with the utmost delicacy. Start with the first step and work your way down the list and within a short period of time you should find yourself free from the religious tyranny of your institutionalized religion.
Step 1. The biggest problem you’re going to happen during your recovery will be the temptation from religious followers, wanting you to come back. Like a drug addict, saying no to drugs,it’s hard, you’re going to have to be strong here. Learn to say no to organized religion and yes to religious freedom.
Step 2. Instead of reading Scripture, start reading about other religions around the world. You will find some weird things and new ideas, but the bottom line here is that you’ll be able to see some similarities, and silliness between the religions.
Step 3. You can still spend time praying, just spend more time praying about how grateful you are, instead of praying for something you want, start spending a little more time thanking God for the things in your lives that you already have. I have spent a lot of time praying for things I never got. When I stopped praying for the things, I thought I needed, I started getting the things I really needed.
Step 4. Start spending a little more time believing in yourself, some religions seem to give all the glory and credit to their gods and very little to the people that are actually making the sacrifices. I have also noticed that when something goes wrong, some religious followers tend to punish themselves and it just doesn’t seem fair. God gets all the credit when things are good and you blame yourself when things go wrong.
Step 5. Start showing a little more compassion towards people who don’t think the same as you do or believe in your religion. Love and compassion are the true acts of a religious believer. I believe you’ll find that in every religious scripture… somewhere.
Sometimes we get a little carried away in our beliefs and tend to beat up other people who don’t share them with us. If you’re part of a religion who discriminates, shows intolerance, bigotry or prejudice to other nonbelievers, maybe this isn’t the religion you think it should be.
Dalai Lama – “All major religious traditions carry basically the same message, that is love, compassion and forgiveness, the important thing is they should be part of our daily lives.”